FAQ's (Frequently Asked Questions)

So, I have this on my fetlife profile but it seems like I’m still getting the same kinds of questions quite frequently so here is the answer to my most asked questions.

Can I be your sub? Are you looking for subs?

No. I am not looking for subs. In fact I’ve never “looked” for subs. It’s just not my style. How I find my subs is through chatting, on discord (I HATE tumblr for chatting it’s not very good these days) typically I like people who I first meet in the general chat, maybe on a group vc a few times. I like to see rapport. Very rarely do I take new subs. I have had about four subs overall in total in my life. So the odds of me picking up anyone new is very rare. He planes must aligne and must have crazy good rapport.

But what about the people you talk about in your videos who you play with? They are your subs right?

Very wrong. I am part of a scene here locally in New Zealand where pick up play happens a lot between friends. That’s when we will do a scene that we negotiate on the spot that evening or sometimes at the munch earlier that day and we play with multiple people in an evening. Online I do sometimes do light trigger play, group text sessions or group voice sessions and live recordings of my files in my discord server but this is rare because when it comes to trancing new people I have a mad case if imposter syndrome.

I emailed/ messaged you on tumblr and never got a reply? Why they hell didn’t you reply you #%*~><! *#%|>!! <censorship ensues>

Okay, now this is for two reasons. One, I’ve actually had sometime to do the day you emailed me and I haven’t checked the inbox yet and you will need to learn some patience. Or two, you sent me a message along the lines of “please make me your sissy sub Mistress.” I no longer respond to those messages because frankly they are not polite and if you open our conversations with that you really aren’t someone I wanna get to know. Sorry!

Hey baby, you single?

Very not thanks. I have a beautiful girlfriend and we are very monogamous so I don’t take on new partners like that. Play partner wise I only really play with people irl these days so unless you live local to me and we met at a munch or at a con then likelihood of us playing are kinda slim.

Mistress…

Nope!

Goddess…

Even more nope!

Can you make sissy files?

Okay for my own personal reasons I don’t actually feel comfortable doing anything forced feminisation based or sissy. This is not changing anytime soon. I do make bimbo files which focus on giggling rather than thinking and soon one about lipstick (or the black lipstick one if you are into the goth bimbo look) but as far as forced fem, that’s a hard limit of mine.

Can you post more saucy/femdom work on youtube?

Okay, this I actually get a lot because I know I keep all the racey, erotic, domination work I make on my patreon. There are two reasons for this. One, I like to be able to buy groceries. In order for me to make a living I have to make something those files being typically longer and having more adult themes it’s only right to keep them on patreon where it is in the adult category. Youtube demonetise anything that’s remotely sexy and more so, you can get flagged for having sexy things on YouTube. If my channel gets flagged the whole thing would as a result be deleted and I don’t wannna risk it. I honestly feel like I make some great work for youtube, it’s not as hard as some of the domination files I have on patreon and I get that, but if you really, REALLY want those files then I’m sorry that’s the give here. I might start putting not so sexy samples on YouTube so you can see what you are getting into when you subscribe to my patreon but I can tell you as someone who in the last year made over two hundred YouTube videos and over a hundred patreon hypnosis files alone, it’s well worth what you pay per month and a lot of my patrons I’m sure would agree.

I hope that helps some of you who were curious! Again thanks for the support and the shares. Imma go record now…